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Let bygones be bygones meaning: forgive and move on

A way to make peace and close an old argument for good. Short and kind, but after let, one tiny extra word likes to sneak in and break the whole phrase.

Let bygones be bygones means forgetting old grievances and moving on: After their conversation, they agreed to let bygones be bygones. Bygones is an old word for things that are in the past. It's close to forgive and forget, or simply let's forget it.

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let bygones be bygones; agree / decide to let bygones be bygones

  • After their conversation, they agreed to let bygones be bygones.
  • I am ready to let bygones be bygones and work together again.
  • She asked whether they could let bygones be bygones after the argument.

What changed

First versionWe decided to let bygones to be bygones.

RevisionWe decided to let bygones be bygones.

Many verbs take to before the next verb, as in want to be or decide to be, so to be looks natural. But after let the verb never takes to: let them go, let bygones be bygones. Drop the to.

Cambridge Dictionary

No hard feelings means no offence taken, for example after a refusal. Let bygones be bygones is about an old conflict that people decide to close. Move on simply means getting on with life, even without making peace.

Your turn

Complete the expression about leaving an old disagreement behind: Let's let bygones ___ bygones.

(be / to be)

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be — After let, the verb comes without to: let bygones be. To be is one word too many.

Write to someone you fell out with a long time ago and suggest making peace. Use let bygones be bygones.

I would like to let bygones be bygones and meet for coffee next week.

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