No hard feelings means I'm not upset, I don't hold it against you: it shows a refusal, an argument or a loss hasn't damaged the relationship. If the person who was turned down says it, they're not offended. If the one who said no asks No hard feelings?, they hope the other person isn't angry. It's casual and friendly.
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No hard feelings.; No hard feelings?; there are no hard feelings
- I was disappointed you chose another team, but no hard feelings.
- A: Sorry I couldn't help on Saturday. B: No hard feelings; I know you were busy.
- We disagreed about the plan, but there are no hard feelings.
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First versionNo hard feeling; I understand why you said no.
RevisionNo hard feelings; I understand why you said no.
Feeling in the singular seems logical, since it's one emotion. But the phrase is fixed in the plural: no hard feelings.
No worries means it's fine, in reply to a small apology or thanks. No hard feelings is for when there was a real reason to be upset: a refusal, a choice that went against you, a defeat. Don't take it personally sounds more like advice.
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Someone apologises for turning down your invitation. Reassure them that you are not offended: ___.
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No hard feelings — You need to reassure the person that the refusal didn't offend you: No hard feelings. No way means not a chance, or you're kidding, not comfort.
Reply to a friend who apologised for not being able to join you this weekend. Use no hard feelings.
No hard feelings; spending the weekend with your family makes perfect sense.
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