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Twist someone's arm meaning: persuade, and why it can mean yes

It means persuading someone who didn't want to: my friends twisted my arm, so I came. But You don't have to twist my arm isn't a complaint at all. What is the person really saying?

Twist someone's arm means persuade someone who didn't want to at first: I was planning a quiet evening, but my friends twisted my arm. Nobody actually gets hurt; it's playful. You don't have to twist my arm means you don't need to persuade me, I'd love to.

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twist + possessive + arm / twist someone's arm to do something

  • I was planning a quiet evening, but my friends twisted my arm and I joined the quiz.
  • You will not have to twist my arm to try the new bakery.
  • The organizer twisted his arm to give one more workshop before leaving.

What changed

First versionThey twisted me arm until I agreed to lead the team.

RevisionThey twisted my arm until I agreed to lead the team.

Me and my both point to the speaker, and in fast speech they're easy to mix up: twisted me arm. But before a noun you need a possessive: my arm, his arm, someone's arm.

Cambridge Dictionary

Talk someone into doing something is the neutral way to say persuade: she talked me into joining. Twist someone's arm stresses that the person resisted for a while. Force means make someone do it, and there's no joke in that.

Your turn

Choose the possessive before arm: You do not need to twist ___ arm; I already want to go.

(my / me)

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my — Before arm you need the possessive my. Me can't go before a noun.

Playfully accept a nice offer and show you don't need persuading, using you don't have to twist my arm.

You don't have to twist my arm to spend an afternoon at the book fair.

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