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Have a bone to pick meaning: 'we need to talk', often with a smile

We need to talk, and the other person tenses up. I have a bone to pick with you means the same, but it often comes with a grin. The tricky part is the little word before you.

Have a bone to pick with someone means they did something that bothered you, and you want to talk about it. The reason usually comes straight after: I have a bone to pick with you: you ate my yoghurt. It's often half-joking, but it can be serious too.

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have a bone to pick with + person; have a bone to pick about + issue

  • I have a bone to pick with you: you borrowed the ladder and left it outside.
  • Maya had a bone to pick with the organiser about the missing name badges.
  • He smiled and said he had a bone to pick with me about my impossible quiz question.

What changed

First versionI have a bone to pick to you about the broken mug.

RevisionI have a bone to pick with you about the broken mug.

You make a complaint to someone, so to feels natural here as well: a bone to pick to you. But this idiom introduces the person with with: a bone to pick with you. The reason is added with about: about the broken mug.

Cambridge Dictionary

A bone of contention is an issue two sides argue over: Money was a bone of contention. Have a bone to pick with someone is your complaint against one person: I have a bone to pick with you about the car. In a work email, a calmer option is I'd like to raise an issue with you.

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I have a bone to pick ___ you: the tools were not put back.

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with — You need with: a bone to pick with you. To may come from complain to someone, but this idiom doesn't use it.

Write a half-joking complaint to a friend, neighbour or colleague about something small at home or at work.

I have a bone to pick with you: you finished the puzzle before I got home.

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